Falling for someone else while you're in a relationship..

Ever fell in love with someone else while you're still in a relationship? HAHA then this song is the ultimate guide for u to clean ur mess. :) 

For starters, here are the lyrics :
[Chorus]
Call your girlfriend 
It's time you had the talk 
Give your reasons 
Say it's not her fault 
But you just met somebody new 

Tell her not to get upset, second-guessing everything you said and done 
And then when she gets upset tell her how you never mean to hurt no one 
Then you tell her that the only way her heart will mend is when she learns to love again 
And it won't make sense right now but you're still her friend 
And then you let her down easy 

[chorus]
Don't you tell her how I give you something that you never even knew you missed 
Don't you even try and explain how it's so different when we kiss 
You tell her that the only way her heart will mend is when she learns to love again 
And it won't make sense right now but you're still her friend 
And then you let her down easy
 
[chorus]
And now, it's gon be me and you 




I rmb i used to not believe in falling in love with someone else while having someone already.. i used to think that if that happened, it just means that u're a fickle-minded jerk. It just means that u didnt love ur bf/gf in the first place. Haha i guess i was very rigid back then, sticking solid to what i think is right. 


Well bt as life goes on further, after experiencing stuffs myself, and as welll as listening to numerous stories, situations and opinions.. i came to find that nothing is ever 100% certain, and situations like that, CAN HAPPEN. not just to other people, bt maybe to myself too. Just like life, life is so uncertain and u wont knw what would happen next.. love is like that too i guess. That's why, the biggest mistake to ever make in life.. is to take everything for granted. 


What if one day you met someone who just swept you off your feet? What if u fell in love with someone else unintentionally? Wellll... to sum it up.. WHAT IF IT JUST HAPPENED? and neither u or anyone else couldve saw it coming or somehow control it. Who knows what would happen? it's LIFE! and one thing i learnt is to keep an open mind abt everything. Nowadays, i no longer dwell in my own perspectives.. i no longer think that i am always right. By keeping an open mind, i felt i am more susceptible to changes in life, especially those unexpected ones. It doesnt mean i dont give an eff abt everything or i didnt care or im very "shui bian".. It's just the way you look at things i guess? rmb there's always multiple angles to look at every single situation.. and i chose the most positive one.  Learn from the past, and take it as a token to lead a better life! :) The angle which ur mind works at is capable to change ur whole life. EVERYTHING LIES IN THE MIND. That is my life motto for every single thing i do.


Well, back to the topic! 


THE ULTIMATE QUESTION : What would you do if you were in this situation?
There are just too many things to ponder on! 
- First of all, i guess u have to figure out if the feelings you harbour for the other person is really love or mere infatuation? If u ever loved someone, u shud be able to tell the difference.
- If you fell in love with someone else, does it mean u dont love ur current bf/gf anymore?
- Are you still with your bf/gf out of obligation/commitment/habit?
- Etc etc etc.


And then.. i guess it comes down to whether u wanna use ur brain or heart :
Do you have the guts to live dangerously and go for what ur heart longs for? or
You're gonna do the right thing and try not to hurt anyone.
To sum it up.. It's whether u wanna be true to yourself or not. Live for urself, or live for others. 


Either way, it's a life choice. May or may not be life-changing, bt one thing is definite - Neither of it is right nor wrong. Everyone has ups and downs in life. Your up may be someone's down, vice versa. it's just part and parcel of life, no one lives a perfect life. And yea, cuz life is too interesting to ever be defined.


Well well well, life huh..? she's a bitch. HAHAH! that's why i nida be a bigger bitch LOL. just joking!


One ironic thing is when we use the word FOREVER. How are we ever certain enough to use that word?


Well i guesssss in conclusion, do not take everything for granted, especially ur loved ones. Cherish and appreciate whatever you have right now, and live in the moment. So even when it comes to an end, you wont regret.